Dating a divorced man with trust issues
If you look at him again this way, my bet is you’ll decide to move on quickly.No matter how cute, fun, intelligent, rich this man is, he is also emotionally unavailable, attached to his wife, and well…rude.I’m not sure if I’ve pushed him away or if it’s really his circumstances that are keeping away.I have pushed guys away in the past and have tried very hard this time to be more aware of my actions.” Dear Hanging, First off, this situation is exactly why I encourage women to avoid dating men who are not divorced for at least a year and I would tell men the same thing.I hope you meet men who are divorced for more than a year and healed of the trauma.Choose to date guys who are ready to date, are emotionally available, and seeking a serious relationship.He is currently separated from his wife and has been for almost two years. I went out on three dates with him before he told me that he’d told his wife about us.
I bumped into him recently and he was a little drunk but all over me.On our 4th and 5th date he suddenly went very cold on me. He then informed me that he was going to see his wife to ‘sort things out and move on one way or the other’ and he hope I understood!I was fine with that but, heard nothing for a few days so naturally I was a little anxious when he eventually text me.When you are dating a divorced man, you need to know, he has a past he is bringing into his future with you.
When you are talking about a divorce, the ex-wife might still be in the picture, or she could be long gone.When you like certain parts of a man that capture your attention which causes you to overlook other characteristics that would make him unattractive, that’s how I KNOW you are compartmentalizing. You have one compartment in your mind for all the things you like about him and a separate compartment where you ignore what you don’t like.