Dating tips for guyss
I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for several years now and things are good.
The thing is I have always had a big foot fetish, and recently I left my computer on foot fetish blog and he pretty much found out. I know this sounds silly but its been bothering me.
You’ve left one woman (mom) to fully commit to another (wife/lover).
The complication from the son’s side is, not wanting to let go of his mother.
She is really only thinking of her own needs and not the needs of her son or her daughter-in-law for that matter.
You can get married, but that doesn’t mean you belong to anyone but ME.
I love him and that was never a huge deal for me, but now when we play he wants me to ,or expects me to play with his feet sometimes.
You married a man who has not yet separated emotionally from his mother. One very obvious sign is she (mother) will be trying to control her son, you, your marriage, up close and from a distance not long after you’ve married her son.
Number one, she has little or nothing to give, and number two, you (wife) are the competitor (in her mind at least) for her son’s adoration and affections.
Now you have a dependent son and a narcissistic mother. This co-dependent arrangement when it hits adulthood is bound to create dysfunction in both.
The dysfunction often shows up the clearest in their relationships with others.
Parenting is supposed to be a time-limited function and we are not supposed to nurture our own parents.
We are supposed to put a big part of the love we have inside into our own lives. A narcissistic mother’s marriage (worse if she doesn’t have a husband) often suffers when unhealthy triangles dominate her love life.