Long distance dating advice
We started watching a show I had never seen, together () [and] we watched the seasons 'together' and texted obsessively."After dating about a year, I made sure that, on one of my visits to NYC, I brought out my girlfriends to experience it with me and get to know him for more than just a dinner — all of his friends and my friends got to hang out and meet, and it was great to get us all together and feel 'normal.'"— Kate"I'm currently in a long-distance relationship and have been for a year.
We send each other old-school letters pretty frequently, and care packages (for the bigger occasions).
With one caveat: "You need to make sure that you're not being super controlling and that the other person's okay with it.
But if you know you have a need, you can address it in the beginning before it gets ugly or out of control.
And not that you needed an excuse, but being miles apart can be great for your sext life and improve your phone sex skills.Which brings us to the importance of establishing trust boundaries when you're not directly involved in the dailies of your partner's life. Sherman suggests that if you have prior baggage, e.g.