Love dating in europe
This leads me to my next point, of commitment not being the serious part of the relationship.
Apparently, a boyfriend or girlfriend is defined as being the most current interesting or comfortable member of the opposite sex that one can find, which also means that the relationship status is often likely to change in almost as short an amount of time that the neck needs to direct the face’s gaze into a new direction.
My theory is that Europeans feel a lot safer in their tiny familiar communities, little towns and social circles where everyone knows everyone, that they are a lot more afraid to commit to one person within this already-figured-out social life.
Americans, on the other hand, can feel a lot more lost in the crowd of a huge, diverse population and thus are more likely to commit to someone without making it the search for the Holy Grail.
It felt almost as though each person played their role in the perfect relationship, but could easily repeat it the following week with somebody else.If you say ‘no' to an invitation, he may well think you're playing hard to get and will probably persist.If you really aren't interested, then be very clear and tell him politely but firmly (the hints that might work back home, won't work here).Of course this is obviously not true for every single American, but it is the view that is generally conveyed to the outside.
In reality, though, American couples are often still getting to know each other when they are already together, and could easily end up holding their partner’s best friend’s hand in the next instant.
After making their own lives very complicated, if a European actually manages to attain a relationship, you often will not even know how to spot it.