Being overtly sexual, talking about exes, talking down to people, excessive boasting or talking about yourself too much are major negatives and no woman wants to hear it.
For more advice, check out my piece on things you should never say to a woman.
Whether we’re interacting or I’m observing you from afar – The way you interact with others and the way you carry yourself are all things we immediately notice. What’s your demeanor – funny, serious, shy, nice, well-mannered, rude, etc.?
Women look past physical attributes, and I know men have a hard time understanding this sometimes because they’re more visual creatures, but women immediately go right past your physical looks to try and get the core of a man.
What shoes you’re wearing based on the occasion and how clean they are.
They indicate a lot more about a man than he often thinks.
If you’re on the shy side it may take some practice to be comfortable with making eye contact but trust me, it’s worth doing what it takes to improve your skills.
Stand-offish body language or unwelcoming expressions can just make someone feel uncomfortable and unwanted so be mindful of things like crossing your arms, how you hold yourself, sitting or standing.
The type of haircut and style you have, if it’s maintained and how clean your hair looks or is. Fingernails, smooth/rough/warts/hairy/etc are all things a woman immediately notices.Not waiting for others to be served before eating, talking with your mouth full, and a general lack of respect for others demonstrates how little you care about the world around you, and the people in it.Eye contact is a huge indicator of confidence and respect, plus it’s just awkward when your eyes are wandering.In fact, you may be rejecting or turning off women in a big way, even before you’ve had a chance to get to know or even talk to them. Check out these 10 ways you’re rejecting women without even knowing it!
It may go without saying but it still bears repeating.
Don’t be afraid to smile, it goes a long way in making people feel comfortable and attracted to you.