Normal age gap dating


26-Oct-2020 02:15

Research on age difference in couples suggests that while the desired gap for men and women is around 13-14 years on average (10-15 years), as specified in their partner preferences on online dating sites, in reality long-term pairs only have 3-4 years disparity.

The research data may be surprising, but it makes sense.

Not many people are capable of feeling like the proverbial 70-year-old billionaire, who, being asked about his marriage to an 18-year-old beauty queen, and pointed out that when he is 80, she is going to be 28, responded with, “Well, I can always marry another 18-year-old”. Age difference in couples affects their long-term prospects. If you want to play, fine, but don’t lie to yourself.

There are beautiful, intelligent, caring individuals who will make great partners, and with whom you can be happy over the long haul.

Case in point; the unwarranted furore surrounding Emmanuel Macron, 39, – the newly-elected President of France – and his wife Brigitte Trogneux, 64.We were in the same circle of friends, so they were all very happy for us." While other couples are given the benefit of the doubt, and any problems they might face are assumed to be the cause of extenuating circumstances, if you're in a relationship with an age gap that courtesy isn't extended to you.Denise Knowles, a relationship counsellor for Relate, says the couples themselves will often assume this as well: "Couples will come to me and say they're having problems and I'll say, 'OK, let's talk about it as two people.Amelia recalls being asked by some of her closest friends if this was how she met her former partner, "I'd tell them time and time again he wasn't my 'sugar daddy' and I know they probably believed me, but it didn't stop them from asking." "One of the biggest problems I find with couple who have an age gap is children," says Denise, "sometimes one will want a child and the other won't.

Sometimes one will have children from a previous relationship but feel like they're perhaps too old to have one in the new relationship.

People say love is blind, but research says your age gap can determine the longevity of your relationship.