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One of the benefits of being approached, rather than being the approacher, is that you have more time to get a read on somebody.The manner in which they approach you tells you a When you’re making the approach, unless you’ve been scoping them for a while, you’ve got considerably less info to work with.maybe even stopping to give him lessons in how to get her to like him so he can do better next time. Other times they get brushed off by the men because they’re not the women those men that someone is trying to make the first move.More often than not the way women approach men they’re interested in doesn’t match up with how they picture the approach going.
(Well, with the exception of that one freakin’ munchkin min-maxer who’d be pulling the Monty Hall probability stunt every time. Not only does she have to figure out how to get over her interested and coming across as a potential Overly Attached Girlfriend ((Incidentally, Laina Morris, the face of OAG is actually pretty damn cool).In a variation (really more of a Failure Gambit Gone Horribly Right), the person will fail at the initial task as planned, but somehow manage not to accomplish the hidden goal that the failure was supposed to yield. If the initial failure would be getting in trouble with the authorities, see Can't Get in Trouble for Nuthin'. For when one doesn't even try to do anything but ends up winning anyway, see Wins by Doing Absolutely Nothing.The person is now doubly cursed, as they now have to deal with the fallout from their planned failure without being able to enjoy the rewards of the goal they were actually striving for. Compare Fake-Real Turn, with "fake" and "real" replaced with "failure" and "success" respectively. Reassignment Backfire is similar where one sends a person they don't like or is expendable on a dangerous or impossible mission with the hopes they'll be killed in action, only for that person to come back alive and successful.And that lack of info can be especially important for women.
Remember what I said about how some guys freak out over overturned gender roles? There are many men who are profoundly uncomfortable with any sort of non-traditional forms of gender-expression whether it’s through looks or behavior, and by trying to make an overt move, women risk stepping squarely on that particular emotional landmine. Crossing it twice is always "better" than crossing it only once.