Should dating become relationship
If you say it at the wrong time, it can destroy any chance of a future relationship – but the same thing can happen if you wait too long. Well, a recent study done by both Zoosk and revealed something a little bit surprising about when to make things official.They took a look at over 1,000 girls and 1,000 dudes and this is what they found: 25 percent of women think that you should wait “at least a few months” before making things legit, while 43 percent of guys thought “it takes a couple of good dates.” So, how do know when to make your sort-of-relationship an official relationship? Here’s something important that you need to remember: you have every right to ask the dude you’ve been hooking up with what he wants and if he’s interested in being your boyfriend. I’m siding with the guys here: it’s best to wait until after a couple of great dates and hang out seshs.Second of all, you should be relatively calm when you bring it up.The worst time to do this is in the middle of a fight or in the middle of sex.When asking your guy what he wants and if he wants to make the relationship official, you just need to be blunt. Just say something like this: “I think we’ve been having a lot of fun these past few weeks and I really like you. If the guy says he has no interest in being serious, he means it.
If you feel like you and your partner are going in a great direction, you may want to take it to the next level.
It will also give you time to get more comfortable to talk to him about it. I know that starting this conversation with a dude can be awkward, uncomfortable and completely nerve-wracking. I’ve done it a million times and let me just tell you guys something: I am really shy.
So if I can talk about this with dudes, anyone can. Like I said, this might be a slightly awkward convo – there might be no getting around that. Would you rather be lame and sit around waiting to hear what he thinks or would you rather take the initiative and find out where his head is on your own? Here’s what to do: first of all, this conversation should happen in person, not through text messages, Facebook chats or even on the phone.
When I was younger, one of my biggest problems was in actually understanding when someone stopped being my date and actually became my boyfriend.
I’m sure many of my boyfriends at the time had the exact same difficulty.
This situation is not necessarily easy to handle, but there are methods you can use to turn dating into a relationship.